by Dr. Christopher Emdin, Columbia University
For parents across the country, the end of summer marks much more than cooler weather and light jackets. As you begin to trade long summer days for cool fall mornings, the biggest thing on your mind is the new school year. As you make this transition, you are being bombarded by everything from news stories and television commercials to flyers and shopping circulars with advice on how to make theupcoming school year one that guarantees the success of your children.
In addition to the general advice that the average parent receives, experts in education on various media outlets consistently tell parents how important it is for them to be more involved in their children’s education. Somewhere between being told to spend more time completing homework with children and being advised to be more visible in the school by attending events you are overwhelmed before the school year even starts. If you had the time to spend hours on homework, show up to school weekly, drive your children to after school programs on their schedule, you certainly would. Unfortunately, you just aren’t afforded these luxuries.
The reality is that many parents, particularly those from urban settings, do not have the luxury of time or money to provide their children with everything that the experts suggest. In fact, if parents work to buy all the suggestions on book-bags, sneakers, and new gadgets, they will end up spending an inordinate amount of time working to buy these suggested items that further limits their ability to meet the almost impossible task of a working parent to spend 4-6 hours a night on homework, and still spend quality time with children.
For today’s parent, particularly the single Black and Latino parent who is juggling jobs or going back to school themselves, it is more challenging than ever to have real tools that can improve your child’s chances to do well in school. In response to the average urban parents needs, I have compiled 5 simple tools to help you to be engaged with your children’s academics, without having to go through the guilt and frustration of not following the experts’ advice on what you should be doing, but that everyday circumstances inhibit you from doing.